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no responses. November 22, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating: Some Things Are Better off Left to Hashem


The Shmuz on Dating: Some Things Are Better off Left to Hashem

I want to present you with a challenge. You have six months to find the perfect roommate. Here’s how it works. You can choose anyone you […]

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no responses. September 27, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating: If It Weren't Hard Enough


The Shmuz on Dating: If It Weren't Hard Enough

What really makes the notion that a young woman is capable of choosing “Mr. Right” absurd is that it denies a fundamental reality. Hashem created men […]

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no responses. August 16, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating- Creating Mr. Potato Head


The Shmuz on Dating- Creating Mr. Potato Head

The shadchan says in that singsong voice, “So, tell me, what are you looking for?” And out comes the laundry list. “I need someone who is […]

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no responses. August 2, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating: The Torah System


The Shmuz on Dating: The Torah System

What is the Torah system for finding a spouse? The answer begins with the understanding that Hashem wants us to lead happy, productive lives. Hashem wants […]

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no responses. July 26, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating: Bashert Doesn't Mean That it Has to Be


The Shmuz on Dating: Bashert Doesn't Mean That it Has to Be

Imagine it’s Rosh Hashanah. I’m standing in shul when suddenly a loud voice booms: “RABBI!” “Yes…” I meekly respond. “I HAVE BEEN SENT FROM HEAVEN TO […]

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no responses. July 12, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating: The Paper Test


The Shmuz on Dating: The Paper Test

GETTING IT ALMOST RIGHT Mark Twain used to say the difference between almost the right word and the right word is the difference between lightning and […]

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no responses. July 4, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Dating: The Bashert Test


The Shmuz on Dating: The Bashert Test

The Bashert test consists of meeting this person and determining if he /she is the right one for you. But this is the mistake that so […]

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no responses. June 21, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Infatuation Is Not A Sign That She Is Bashert


Infatuation Is Not A Sign That She Is Bashert

A young man gets engaged, and his friends ask him, “How did you know that she was the right one?” “I knew it the minute I […]

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no responses. June 15, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Too Smart to Get Married


Too Smart to Get Married

I got a call from a fellow who said, “Rebbe, you have to help me.” “Sure, sure. What’s up?” I replied. “Well, I was set up […]

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