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no responses. June 27, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

The Shmuz on Marriage: Forgetting That You Guys are Friends


The Shmuz on Marriage: Forgetting That You Guys are Friends

  It’s six thirty at night. A young man comes home from work, enters his apartment, plops himself down on the coach, pulls out the newspaper, […]

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6-Parshas-Chukas-the-extent-of-reward

no responses. June 26, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Parshas Chukas- The Extent of Reward


Parshas Chukas- The Extent of Reward

  HASHEM said to Moshe, “Do not fear him, for into your hands have I given him, his entire people, and his land; you shall do […]

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Infatuation is not a sign

no responses. June 21, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Infatuation Is Not A Sign That She Is Bashert


Infatuation Is Not A Sign That She Is Bashert

A young man gets engaged, and his friends ask him, “How did you know that she was the right one?” “I knew it the minute I […]

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Marriage Button - Mistakes3

no responses. June 20, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

It’s Respect First, Love Second


It’s Respect First, Love Second

A husband and wife are walking when suddenly he trips. “Oy!” she cries out. “Are you OK?! I hope you’re not hurt.” “It’s OK. It’s OK,” […]

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Parshas-Korach-Answers-have-no-answers

no responses. June 19, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Parshas Korach- Questions Have Answers -- Answers Don’t Have Answers


Parshas Korach- Questions Have Answers -- Answers Don’t Have Answers

“Korach the son Yizhar, son of Kahas, son of Levi, separated himself with Dathan and Aviram, the sons of Eliav, and On of Peleth, the offspring […]

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10-HASHEM-is-here-1

no responses. June 15, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Too Smart to Get Married


Too Smart to Get Married

I got a call from a fellow who said, “Rebbe, you have to help me.” “Sure, sure. What’s up?” I replied. “Well, I was set up […]

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4-Parshas-Shilach-Stronger-than-G-d

no responses. June 12, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Parshas Shelach- Stronger Than G-d


Parshas Shelach- Stronger Than G-d

  But the men who had ascended with him said, “We cannot ascend to that people for it is stronger than us!” — Bemidbar 13:31   […]

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But I'm Just Not Sure

no responses. June 7, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

But I'm Just Not Sure


But I'm Just Not Sure

What happens if you sort of, kind of, feel this person is the right one—but you’re just not sure? What do you do? The first thing […]

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Marriage Button - Mistakes2

no responses. June 6, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Marriage 2


Marriage 2

Mistake #2 They forget that infatuation is effortless, and real love takes work It’s not what HASHEM wanted Imagine you meet an old friend, you have […]

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Parshas-Bahalochescha-Histaldus-for-a-Dvar-Mitzvah

no responses. June 5, 2017 Bentzion Shafier

Parshas BaHalosecha- Hishtadlus for a Dvar Mitzvah


Parshas BaHalosecha- Hishtadlus for a Dvar Mitzvah

    This is the workmanship of the menorah, hammered out of gold, from it base to its flower, it is hammered out; according to the […]

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